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Scriptures Reference of Comfort and Assurance

Stephen Ministry is ...

a ministry of our congregation that equips lay persons to provide distinctively Christian one-to-one care to those who are experiencing all kinds of life needs and circumstances. It emphasizes God as the cure giver, with Stephen Ministers as caregivers. Stephen Ministers have gone through extensive training in how to provide care for people who are in need of extra comfort and support. The Stephen Ministry program is actively at work in our church. If you or someone you know would like to talk with a caring friend who provides confidential Christian care, please call one of the pastors at 648-2662 or any of the Stephen Leaders: Jane Keisler (649-6675) or Marilyn Sackett (641-7382).

"Love one another...as I have loved you." John 13:34

Stephen Ministers are committed Christian people who...

  •     express God's care through their lives to others;
  •     receive 50 hours of initial training in important caring ministry skills and concepts;
  •     are commissioned as Stephen Ministers after completing their initial training;
  •     visit another person regularly and dependably and offer Christian support and care;
  •     participate in regular support and supervision under guidance of trained Stephen Leaders
  •     are committed to preserving the confidential nature of the caring relationship;
  •     serve for at least two years;
  •     receive continuing education and skill building throughout their years of service.

"Be kind and compassionate to one another." Ephesians 4:2

Meets the Needs of People ...

There are times when each of us needs the care of another person, a Christian friend, a Stephen Minister! Those needing support may include but are not limited to people who are...

  •     a new parent
  •     a new church member
  •     an "empty nester"
  •     retiring
  •     in personal/spiritual crisis
  •     experiencing broken relationships
  •     hospitalized/ill
  •     bereaved
  •     in a job crisis
  •     a single parent
  •     lonely
  •     homebound
  •     disabled
  •     in times of transition

Stephen Ministry is confidential ministry. Those receiving care can be sure that their identity and what goes on in the caring relationship will remain private.

"Bear one another's burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ." Galatians 6:2

Multiplies Our Christian Caregiving and Outreach ...

Our Stephen Ministers work together with our pastors to reach more people with Christian care than pastors can reach by themselves.

People who receive care from a Stephen Minister...

  •     receive quality Christian care and support,
  •     are visited regularly at a mutually agreeable time and place,
  •     are prayed for and with, regularly,
  •     continue to have contact with the pastor, as needed.

Stephen Ministry enhances our outreach by...

  •     enhancing caring ministry where many instead of a few are offering God's love and care in intentional, systematic ways.
  •     enabling our entire congregation to grow as a warm, loving, nurturing community where people are cherished and cared for in Jesus Christ.
  •     identifying our congregation to our community as a place where people's needs are taken seriously.

"Encourage one another and build one another up." Thessalonians 5:11

About the Leaders of Our Congregation's Stephen Ministry ...

Stephen Leaders are pastors, church staff, and/or lay people who have completed a Stephen Series Leader's Training Course and are commissioned to lead Stephen Ministry in our congregation.

Our congregation's Stephen Leaders can ...

  •     help you or someone you know receive care from a Stephen Minister;
  •     tell you how to become a Stephen Minister;
  •     tell you about Stephen Ministry training and our next training class;
  •     answer questions about our congregation's Stephen Ministry program.

"For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them." Matthew 18:20

How You Can Support Our Congregation's Stephen Ministry ...

  •     Pray for our Stephen Ministers and Stephen Leaders as they provide Christian care to others.
  •     Pray for all who are receiving confidential care through the Stephen Ministry of our congregation.
  •     Refer those who might benefit from the care of a Stephen Minister.
  •     Receive Stephen Ministry when you are in need of supportive Christian care.
  •     Consider serving as a Stephen Minister.
  •     Support Stephen Ministry with your financial gifts.
"If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it."  I Corinthians 12:26

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The encouragement and support of a Stephen Minister is available by calling First Presbyterian Church, Aiken, SC  (803) 648-2662 or email the church @ aikenpresbyterian@aikenpresbyterian.org

 
Stephen Ministry is a structured process of one-to-one caring. The primary steps by which this caring is initiated are:
v A person – either you, a relative, or a friend – is in need of Christian care, comfort, and support.
v The Stephen Ministry Referrals Coordinator learns about this need for care from the pastors, or a friend, or you.
v The Stephen Ministry Referrals Coordinator talks with the person to explain about Stephen Ministry.
v With the person’s permission the Referrals Coordinator assigns a Stephen Minister to meet on a weekly basis with the person.
v The Stephen Minister continues to provide distinctively Christian care for the person with strict confidentiality.

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History: In 1975 the Rev. Kenneth C. Haugk, Ph.D., a pastor and clinical psychologist, saw that people’s needs for care in his St. Louis congregation and community by far exceeded what he alone could provide. He developed materials to train nine of his congregation members to provide quality, one-to-one Christian care to individuals experiencing a life crisis. Upon completion of their training, he commissioned them as "Stephen Ministers" and linked them with people with a variety of needs for care. "Stephen Ministry" was so successful in his church that other congregations wanted to become involved. Dr. Haugk then founded the Stephen Ministries organization and developed the Stephen Series, which now has been implemented in over 9,000 congregations from more than 100 Christian denominations in all 50 states, nine Canadian provinces, and 22 other countries. An estimated 450,000 people have been trained as Stephen Ministers, who in turn have ministered to more than a million care receivers.

The Definition of the Stephen Series: The Stephen Series is a complete system for training and organizing lay people for caring ministry in and around their congregations.

Terminology:

The organization, based in St. Louis, is Stephen Ministries St. Louis. The lay caregiving ministry system congregations implement is the Stephen Series. Once the Stephen Series is implemented in a congregation, it is usually called Stephen Ministry. The pastors and lay people trained at a seven-day Leader’s Training Course (LTC) to direct Stephen Ministry in their congregations are called Stephen Leaders. Those who are trained to provide one-to-one care to those in need are called Stephen Ministers. Those who receive the care of Stephen Ministers are their care receivers.

The Organization: Stephen Ministries is a not-for-profit, transdenominational, religious, and educational organization founded in 1975. The St. Louis-based staff of 50 includes 6 pastors. Two staff people are also mental health professionals. Dr. Haugk serves as the executive director.

The Name: The name Stephen comes from the first lay person commissioned by the apostles to provide caring ministry to those in need (Acts 6).

The Stephen Ministry Logo: The logo Stephen Ministry congregations use consists of a cross and circle, together with a broken person and a whole person. The broken person stands behind the cross, symbolizing the brokenness in our lives as a result of our sin. The whole person stands in front of the cross because it is through the cross of Jesus that we again are made whole. The circle symbolizes both the wholeness we receive through Christ and God’s unending love for us.

How the Stephen Series Works: Pastors, church staff, and lay leaders from a congregation attend a seven-day Leader’s Training Course (LTC), taught by the Stephen Ministries St. Louis faculty, to learn how to implement and direct the Stephen Series in their congregations. These trained Stephen Leaders then return to their congregations to set up and administer a Stephen Ministry program.

Stephen Leaders recruit and select lay people from the congregation to serve as Stephen Ministers and provide them with 50 hours of training in Christian care giving. Some of the training topics include listening, feelings, assertiveness, confidentiality, and ministering to people in specific situations such as divorce, terminal illness, grief, and childbirth. Stephen Ministers are also trained to recognize when a care receiver’s needs go beyond the care a Stephen Minister can provide and where and how to refer the care receiver for additional care.

Upon completion of the training, these lay people are commissioned as Stephen Ministers. Stephen Leaders then link each Stephen Minister with a care receiver – a member of the congregation or community who is in need of quality Christian care. A Stephen Minister normally is assigned to only one care receiver at a time and meets with the care receiver for an average of about one hour per week.

Stephen Ministers also meet twice monthly for peer supervision and continuing education. Stephen Ministers initially commit to two years of service, but after those years many recommit to serve additional years.

Important to Note:

  • Stephen Ministers are not counselors. They are trained Christian caregivers. Their role is to listen and to care – not to counsel or advise.
  • Stephen Ministry is a supervised ministry. Stephen Ministers engage in twice-monthly supervision to ensure that they are providing the best quality Christian care for their care receivers.
  • Stephen Ministry is a confidential ministry. What a care receiver tells a Stephen Minister remains confidential. Even in supervision, the names of care receivers and specific details are never discussed.
  • Stephen Ministers do not visit without permission. They are assigned only to care receivers who agree to receive the care of a Stephen Minister

The Stephen Ministries St. Louis:  The website for the headquarters in St. Louis for Stephen Ministries is http://www.stephenministries.org

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Current Stephen Ministers
These are our current Stephen Ministers in active service on behalf of our congregation. Numbers by each name indicate years of service as Stephen Ministers.
Kathy Brown - 1998-2001; 2005-present
Jayne Cornell - 2004-present
Rose Lewis - 2007-present
Barbara Montgomery - 2007-present
Charles Murphy - 2004-present                                                             
Betty Robinson -1996-present                                                                                                 
Harriet Shallo - 2002-present
Deno Verenes - 2005-present
 
Current Stephen Leaders
The leadership team of Stephen Ministry at First Presbyterian Church, Aiken, includes the following people. The "LTC date" is the year they were commissioned as Stephen Leaders.
Jane Keisler - LTC 2003
Marilyn Sackett – LTC 1995
 
Former  Ministers & Leaders
We give thanks to God for these individuals who have served as Stephen Ministers and Stephen Leaders at First Presbyterian Church, Aiken. We list their names here in appreciation of their service. Numbers by each name indicate years of service as Stephen Ministers. (The "LTC dates" are the years of service as Stephen Leaders.)
Larry Andrews - 2005-2007
Mary Andrews 2002-2004
Nancy Bebb 1997 – 2000
Beth Beckham 1996 – 1998
Allen Blancett 2004 - 2006
June Blohm 2000 - 2003
Robin Callicott 1998 – 2001
Will Cole 1998 – 1998*
Merriane Corey 2002 - 2004
Jeanie Dynarksi 2002 - 2004
Martha Ebel LTC – 1997 - 2006
Maxine Eberhard 1999 - 2002
Bill Erickson 2005 - 2006
Dick Everard  2002 - 2004
Louise Gaddy 1999 – 2001
Rufus Gaddy 1999 – 2001
Keith Griffin  2004 - 2007
Sheila Jackson 1996 – 1998
Sally Jenkins LTC 1998 – 2001
Andrea Johnson 1999 - LTC 2004-2007
Bill Johnston LTC 1998 – 2001
Bill Jordan 1998 – 2000
Jean Jordan 1998 – 2001
Jane Keisler 1998 – 2001
Suzi Kilgo 2000 - 2001
Betty Knapp 1996 – 1998
John Knox 1998 – 2000
Robbie Knox 1996 - LTC 2000 - 2006
David Losey 1996 – 1997
Dot Matthews 1996 – 1997
Paul McCreery LTC 1995-2003
Tim McKinsey 1997 – 2001
Dianne Meyer 2002 - 2004
Ellie Miller 2000 - 2002
Clyde Moody 1996-1997, LTC 1997-1998
David Muhlbaier 1997 – 2000
Gordon Murtaugh 2002-2003
Lois Murtaugh 2002-2003
Coleen Neal 1998 – 2002
Kent Newell 1996 – 1998
Jeri Perkins LTC 1995 – 1998
Jane Anne Royal 2005 - 2007
Carol Ryder 2002 - 2006
Marjorie Seaman 1997 - 2000, 2002 - 2004*
Bill Sholin 1996 – 2000
Al Siddall 1998 – 1999
Yvonne Siddall 1998 – 1998
Nellie Smith 1999 – 2001*
Priscilla Smith 2000-2007
Bob Spencer 1996 – 2001
Frances Spencer 1996 – 2001
Jack Stumpfig  2005 - 2007
Sarah Williams 2004 - 2005
Mary Dean Williamson 2000 - 2002
Dorothy Wilson 1996 – 1997
Jon Van Deventer LTC 1999 - 2002
*Deceased
 
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History at First Presbyterian

In 1995 the Session of First Presbyterian Church, Aiken, SC, made a commitment to involve the congregation in a program of caring lay ministry by enrolling in the Stephen Series. In July/August 1995 three Stephen Leaders were trained at a Leadership Training Course (LTC). These three Stephen Leaders recruited the first class of thirteen Stephen Ministers and training began in January 1996. This first class was commissioned June 2, 1996. In January 1997 another class of four began, and they were commissioned June 1, 1997. During the summer of 1997 two additional Stephen Leaders were trained at a LTC. The January 1998 class added eleven more Stephen Ministers who were commissioned May 3, 1998. Two more Stephen Leaders were trained at a LTC in 1998. In 1999 five additional Stephen Ministers were trained and commissioned April 18, 1999. One additional Stephen Leader was trained in 1999 at a LTC. In 2000 another five Stephen Ministers were trained and commissioned May 14, 2000. Also in 2000 one more Stephen Leader was trained at a LTC. In 2002 five more Stephen Ministers were trained with commissioning on May 26, 2002, along with two additional Stephen Ministers who had trained elsewhere and moved to Aiken.  Another Stephen leader was trained at an LTC in 2003 and another at an LTC in 2004.  In 2004 five more Stephen Ministers were trained in a combined training class with St. Thaddeus Episcopal Church.  Commissioning for the First Presbyterian Stephen Ministers was April 18, 2004.  In fall 2005, another combined training class with St. Thaddeus Episcopal church was held.  The four First Presbyterian Stephen Ministers were commissioned on December 18, 2005, along with one additional Stephen Minister who had trained elsewhere and moved to Aiken. From January to April 2007, another combined training class was held with both St. Thaddeus Episcopal Church and Aiken First Baptist Church.  The two First Presbyterian Stephen Ministers were commissioned on April 22, 2007.

The initial commitment to Stephen Ministry is to serve for two years. Although some Stephen Ministers have gone on to serve in other ways, many have recommitted to serve additional years.

Stephen Ministry has supplemented and enhanced the ministry of the pastoral staff in providing ongoing Christian care to many in our congregation and in our community.

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Scriptures Reference of Comfort and Assurance

When in sorrow
John 14

When people fail you
Psalm 27

If you want to be fruitful
John 15

When you have sinned
Psalm 51

When you worry
Matthew 6:19-34

When you are in danger
Psalm 91

When God seems far away
Psalm 139

When your faith needs stirring
Hebrews 11

When you are lonely and fearful
Psalm 23

When you grow bitter and critical
I Corinthians 13

For Paul’s secret to happiness
Colossians 3:12-17

For understanding of Christianity
II Corinthians 5:15-19

When you feel down and out
Romans 8:31

When you want peace and rest
Matthew 11:25-30

When the world seems bigger than God
Psalm 90

When you want Christian assurance
Romans 8:1-30

When you leave home for labor or travel
Psalm 121

When your prayers grow narrow or selfish
Psalm 67

For a great invention / opportunity
Isaiah 55

When you want courage for a task
Joshua 1

For how to get along with others
Romans 12

When you think of investments and returns
Mark 10

If you are depressed
Psalm 27

If you pocketbook is empty
Psalm 37

If you are losing confidence in people
I Corinthians 13

If people seem unkind
John 15

If discouraged about your work
Psalm 126

If you find the world growing small and yourself great
Psalm 19

For dealing with fear
Psalm 34:7

For security
Psalm 121:3

For assurance
Mark 8:35

For reassurance
Psalm 145:18

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